Saturday, June 7, 2014

Juno Reactor


Astrology is like a puzzle you can never truly solve, which is why I love it. There is always something to explore and it imbues your life with this...richness. For example, whole sign houses were a revelation that made a lot of sense for me. Usually, I don't look at any bodies beyond Pluto (in my chart) but I ran across some interesting things about Juno.

Magi Society says: "When it comes to sex, there is no planet or asteroid as potent as Juno.  Juno is the most sexual of the planets and is even more sexual than Venus, Mars or Pluto.[...]It is Juno, and not Venus, Mars or Pluto, that is the primary ruler of sexual attraction and desire. Juno rules sex appeal and sexual charisma." 

This is in contrast to AstroLady: "In the natal chart, the house and sign placement of our natal Juno reveals the kind of person we are meant to marry. While Venus and Mars represent our ideal mate, Juno represents loyalty and attachment. Juno represents what we need in a mate, rather than simply who we are attracted to. Many astrologers have gone as far as to say Juno represents our true love or marriage partner."

Cosmitec sheds more light: "According to Martha Lang-Wescott, Juno represents what goes awry and Juno tests the level of commitment and attitude toward fidelity and marriage. Perhaps, that's why according the Magi Society (a School in astrology) Juno is a sexual "planet" and is symbolic of the mistress, sex without commitment and the one-night stand."

Elsa Elsa says: "A Juno match is one where you see your ideal counterpart to balance your committed nature, but this can also bring out your seriously dysfunctional issues when thwarted in the relationship. If you can stand apart, you can see how this can be ultimately growth-producing."

NeptuneCafe says: "Juno in particular is about the committed relationship between two individuals, generally a man and a woman. Venus is better defined as the love goddess, the ruler of the attraction between the sexes. She inspires people to make love, but is not interested in the business side of relationship, or getting married to have children. Venus inspires an appreciation for beauty and sex; Juno inspires the creation of a stable partnership, a long-term, committed relationship."

Always Astrology: "She has some similarities to Venus, but while Venus sparks that initial attraction, Juno makes the commitment. She sings of soul mates.[...]Where you find Juno in your chart is where you may meet someone that you will remain with for a long relationship."

Cafe Astrology: "Juno represents commitment, marriage, betrayal, give and take in partnerships, partnership itself, infidelity, fairness, and compromise. Juno is enraged with inequalities and shows us where we seek to make things balanced, fair, and right."

It would appear that commitment is the central issue with Juno, which makes sense (Juno or Hera is the wife of Jupiter/Zeus, who is notorious for extramarital affairs). She represents the ideal partner for long-term commitment. I don't know where/how/why Magi Society places such a sexual emphasis on Juno, especially considering her mythology. Sexual agreement is a crucial element of any long-term relationship, but I can't see much of a connection beyond that.

My Juno is conjunct Venus by less than a degree and being a Libra rising, this is something significant to delve into. I am also a Sagittarius, and commitment has been a big issue for me, infidelity or not. I see Juno as another clue in the soulmate mystery, because Scorpio accepts nothing less than a soulmate. So how does Juno add to the conversation?

It reinforces the importance of Venusian values, such as art, sex, material possessions, and anything that really indulges the senses. Compromise is important...someone who dominates and yields. This is all through the lens of Scorpio, so there needs to be intensity and a sense that she is all in for me. A kind of mutual obsessiveness. I want to feel and know she's all mine, that she needs me. Yet, we need to be able to continually evolve and renew ourselves as people. I often overlook the transformational needs of Scorpio, and a relationship that grows stagnant is on its way to being abandoned.

I think that this is where the extramarital affair/infidelity piece comes into play: if the relationship isn't satisfying those Juno needs, you begin to seek satisfaction outside the relationship (like Jupiter). Of course, this responsibility doesn't fall solely on one person. How well are we aware of our needs/desires? The degree to which we understand ourselves is an important factor in finding a great match. 


Getting back to my chart, since Scorpio rules my 2nd house, money/shared resources is going to be an issue. My 2 longest relationships, she was paying for everything. Not something I am proud of but interesting to note. My credit is terrible at the moment, so if I were to get married, it would certainly be part of the discussion. I predict, either she's rich and is going to fix my credit or it is going to be a huge obstacle that drives us apart. If Juno is about balance and rectifying inequality, that makes a lot of sense.

In the end, I am more partial to Elsa Elsa and Cafe Astrology's description of Juno. Long-term relationships aren't pure bliss, there is work to be done and compromises to be made. You have to be committed to the commitment! Venus tells us about initial attraction and bonding, Juno informs us of how we sustain that attraction/bond.

Sunday, June 1, 2014

June Predictions


Let me articulate some of my recent realizations in the simplest form. Don't give away your power to people! Stop superimposing or comparing your life to some idealized path and work with that is! Don't give away your power to regret and self-pity, it poisons the present!

I've stopped participating/investing in social media to the degree I was before. Twitter? Gone. Facebook? Still on but way less involved. No more newsfeed quicksand, just a quick check for birthdays and event invites. I don't want to use my psychic energy to prod in everyone's life. I'm focusing on my life. It's only been a few days, but my mind feels clearer already.

Makes sense, that in a 1 month (May), individuality came to the forefront. I recognize lots of things I need to work on, and it's energizing! I'm coming to my own side, not so divided and confused. Embracing a self-worth beyond current circumstances. My path is my path. I'm still here. And it's time for me to win!

Now, coming to the 2 month, cooperation comes to the forefront. The nervous, tense energy of last month tempers and cools. Mars has gone direct but it is a very Venusian time. Mercury goes retrograde and words fail, emphasizing the importance of action. Venus is in Taurus, Saturn (a very tangible planet) is conjuncting Venus, I get a very physical sense from June. Scorpio/Pluto/8th house energy is activated, which always means depth. Also, school will be letting out and there are 2 women I've spoken with who swear they'll have more time then.

If I were to sum June: opposites attract. It is basically a composite of 2 energy and oppositions. Most of the activity takes place within the first 2 weeks. Looking ahead, July is a quiet month. It looks like more of a 'personal' month...reflections, creativity, moods/feelings. This is more of a time to work with others to really create something tangible.

Saturn Conjunct Venus
I wanna get married and have children. Not immediately, but I'm on that level. All the women I've been dating are older by a couple years..or a decade and a half. No matter what I choose, I see it more clearly. I feel very confident dating and all the experience (so far) is crystallized wisdom. Commitment...my body is ready. Oh, I also wanna make a lot of money. Practicality is winning over passion right now.

Uranus Conjunct Moon 
I recognize what time it is. Nothing is a sure go, especially when it comes to romance. It's pretty crazy. I haven't been able to get anything steady going. Looking at all the oppositions and the upcoming Mercury Rx, I imagine things will get even more hectic, chaotic, and frustrating. I'm not gonna complain though. I'm coming to terms with the fact I can walk and chew gum at the same time. So, while a long-term relationship is optimal, short-term relationships may be the soup du jour.

Uranus Opposition Mars, ASC
My Libraness is dissolving into Ariesness! More and more, I'm seeing conflict as valuable to peace building. I'm valuing getting out there and doing it! Not just thinking and talking about it. I'm not allowing how I think people see me to dictate my actions.

Mercury Retrograde
I don't even know what to say for this anymore, except be careful. "Look before you leap."

6/2 Sun Trine Jupiter (4)
Opportunism, optimism and practicality! This is a Monday where I go all out and set the tone for the rest of the week. A lot can be accomplished on a day like this. Expand the infrastructure and launch a new company!

6/3 Venus Opposition Pluto (5)
Opposites attract as Venus and Pluto have tension. 5 energy makes this explode...on a Tuesday?! My 8th house is ruled by Taurus, where Venus will be passing through. I get a very physical sense, even more than I usually attribute to Venus-Pluto transits (which are conducive to lust). The Moon will be in Leo...hmmm, my ex will probably be contacting me. I've been in contact with so many women, it could be any one of them.


6/4 Sun Opposition Mercury (6)
This is interesting, knowing the retrograde is just days away. Someone challenging my views perhaps? As long as I don't talk too much, I'm fine. A great day to be receptive and creative.

6/6 Venus Conjunct North Node (8)
Fated relationship? Nodes are really connected to the moon, which is all about security. Wanting marriage and all, it is easy to see where this could go. This begins an energy ramp for the weekend.

6/7 Sun Trine ASC, Mars (9)
A lot of energy and larger than life personality! A feeling of accomplishment for a week of hard work. I'm definitely going extra hard with this is mind. Ego drives are strong.There is a harmony, a completion.

6/8 Sun Opposition Uranus (1)
A day of surprises. Exploding energy and individuality. The energy from Saturday really comes to a climax.

6/8 Venus Square Jupiter (1)
Talk about super Sunday! Squares always indicate a challenge to productively use elements that aren't in agreement. However, Venus transits are soft by nature and the only real danger is here is overindulging, whether it be women/sex, food, or drink. Energy will be high, so it will be important to not get carried away.
 

6/8-11 Mars Trine Jupiter (1-4)
What a way to start the week! So much energy from the weekend propelling me forward. The 1 energy too? This is a special time, very opportune for anything....wait for it...physical! Just a lucky, optimistic, energetic time. The 10th will be an optimal time for creating. To top things off, Mercury goes Rx on the 8th.


6/10 Neptune goes Rx (3)
3+Neptune=creativity? Just my impression, which looks corroborated by my peers. Heightened sensitivity/awareness and a need to face any areas of life I have been "escaping". A time to lay off the drinking. Neptune will be heading back towards Pluto, emphasizing that need to confront what I may have thrown to the underworld. With all the physical energy running about, this transit is great for turning raw inspiration to tangible work.


6/13 Venus Opposition Venus (6)
Another Venus opposition. It's going to be a physical month! However, 6 is emphasizing the domestic element and Venus-Venus transits are very soft, so it won't have the carnal energy of Venus-Pluto. Friday (the 13th oooh) and the weekend will be beginning. I see myself wanting to relax after the burst of energy earlier in the week.


6/24 Venus Opposition Sun, Saturn (8)
Moon is in my 8th house. Looks like a physical day as well. Give and take, not so quick to retreat, and I will be rewarded.

6/25-27 Mars Conjunct Mars (9-2)
High energy, mirroring the Mars transit a few weeks earlier. This is a major launching point, as there are really no more "big" Mars transits until September. This is the most physical transit of all, great time to start that exercise regimen collecting cobwebs.

6/26 Sun Trine Pluto (1)
Power. Explodes the Mars transit.